#lgbt sims

[sejianismodding]

🎁 [BG] BUGFIX - Update 7/23/2024 broke our bodies. Update 10/31/2024 didn't fix us. This mod fixes us! 🌺

☠️ REMINDER: Double-check the OP for updates!

⚔️ This affects EVERYONE! AHQ hasn't updated that damned title!

☄️ Repackaged - 9/21/2024

🚀 Initial Release - 7/30/2024

🎁 Download & Discussions Post: https://www.patreon.com/posts/109088001

🗺️ Modding Announcements Post: https://www.patreon.com/posts/10929150

💜 You're welcome and thanks for the engagement!

👹 EAxis somehow managed to break 18 Deformer Maps that control the shape of all of our bodies back in July with Update 7/23/2024. Since then, we've had EIGHT (8) updates, TWO (2) new Kits, ONE (1) new FOMO Event, and ONE (1) new Expansion Pack, BUT THEY STILL HAVEN'T FIXED OUR BODIES! I've now gone the extra mile and listed all 18 Instance identifiers for the 18 Deformer Maps in my most recent comment on the Bug Report following the release of Update 9/18/2024: https://answers.ea.com/t5/Bug-Reports/OPEN-Spine-distortion-on-male-Sims-with-female-frame/m-p/14053376/highlight/true#M293677

💜 @xandezsims said I could nick the animated thingamajig. Danke!

I'm shortening my short-form formatting with "Keep reading". 😹

🌺 "KEEP READING" TO UNDERSTAND HOW THIS AFFECTS EVERYONE AND NOT JUST MALE SIMS WITH FEMININE FRAMES.

All sims aged TEEN through ELDER are affected by this but you will only see it under certain circumstances:

The distortion will not occur when wearing frame-appropriate clothing.

Cisframe sims will see it when wearing clothing that was made for the opposite Physical Frame. As a cisframe simmer, you might still ask yourself how this affects you, to which I will say, for the last 10 years EAxis has done and continues to do a horrible job at their own Restrict Opposite PartFlags despite numerous bug reports. There are numerous clothing made for one or the other that is improperly flagged for the opposite, eg. there are MANY Lower Body pants available for Female sims that appear under Feminine Fashion that was made for Male sims and cause distortions on Female bodies. They were NOT remade for Female sims. The Male item was flagged for both Fashion Choices.

Transframe sims will see it when nude or wearing "default" underwear and also when wearing clothing that was made for the opposite Physical Frame. The above applies, but if you've got a transframe sim, you've already encountered that issue even before this "bug" was introduced. Fixing these incompetent Restrict Opposite PartFlags is the core concept behind my CAS Overrides.

Male sims with Feminine Frames will see a raised "spine" from neck to butt while Female sims with Masculine Frames will see a sunken "spine".

Female sims with Feminine Frames wearing Male clothing will see a raised "spine" from neck to butt, and Male sims with Masculine Frames wearing Female clothing will see a sunken "spine".

[gilbertbakerpridesimslegacy]

Gilbert Baker's Pride Legacy: an LGBT Legacy Challenge

This Sims 4 challenge is based on Gilbert Baker’s original 8 stripe rainbow pride flag. Baker assigned each stripe a meaning connecting to the LGBT community. Each generation embodies one of these stripes and their meanings. 

Every generation heir must complete their aspiration and reach the top level of their careers. Each heir must wear at least one item of their respective stripe colors at all times. Each heir can be any gender, including trans and nonbinary genders, unless specified otherwise.  Each heir can be any sexuality, unless specified otherwise.  The only rule: the main sim cannot be both cisgender and heterosexual/heteromantic.  You are encouraged to hang the pride flag of your sim’s identity, whatever you decide it is.

For rules in written form, see here.

[allrosenrot]

Johann Hughes

Johann is really excited to show off his talent 😋

[sentimental-sims]

LGBT+ Pride Flag Pole

Mesh edit + recolour of “There’s a Flag for That”

I noticed a University item that's a set of three animating flags, and figured out how to edit it so my Sims can finally have a Pride flag pole outside their homes! It's meant to be put on a wall, but can be placed on columns with moveobjects on.

Thank you for looking, and I hope you enjoy my first ever Sims CC!

Download, PSD and flag list under the cut (SimFileShare, no adfly)

Requires Discover University

35 swatches

Custom Swatch Thumbnails

All LODs

Terms of Use

Item Name: Pride Flag Pole

Can also be found by searching SentimentalSims in BuildBuy

Created with: Sims 4 Studio, Blender, Photoshop. Flag Sources: Lesbian flag by @sadlesbiandisaster | Gay flag by @gayflagblog | LGBTA Wikia

I originally made this in late 2020, re-uploading May 2024 with a smaller file option now that I'm on SimFileShare. Happy Pride!!

Update: Active Twitter for the lesbian flag's creator: Emily Gwen

Download: [SimFileShare], no ad.fly

Only install one file.

Includes Blank/white flag .package and .PSD for recolours.

.PSDs can be opened in some free programs, like Krita.

For a smaller file size, I made a Rainbow-Only file option, or you can edit the .package file in Sims4Studio to only have the flags you'd like to use (deleting the DST Image and Build Buy Thumbnail images for what you're not keeping really helps, too!)

Rainbow-Only Flag Set (530 KB) Item name: Rainbow Pride Flag Pole

6-Stripe Rainbow, 8-Stripe Original, Philadelphia, Progress.

All Flags Set (3 MB) Item name: Pride Flag Pole

Intersex

Rainbow: 6-Stripe Rainbow, 8-Stripe Original, Philadelphia, Progress.

Aspec: Asexual, Demisexual, Grey-sexual. Aromantic, Demiromantic, Grey-romantic.

Gender: Trans, Non-binary, Agender, Genderqueer, Genderfluid, Bigender, Trigender, Demiboy, Demigirl, Demigender .

Attractions: Lesbian*, Gay*, Bi, Pan, Polyamoury**, Polysexual, Omnisexual, Abrosexual, Sapphic, Achillean, Diamoric.

*Two swatches: 5 and 7 stripes. **Two swatches: infinity heart + green/blue stripes and blue/red/black stripes.

[lesbiansimqueen]

new lesbian dropped

her name is mika

[sweetestsim]

You can say that we are nothing, but you know the truth

[honeyjars-sims]

Roy G. Biv's V2 (Revamp of old lot) Lot Type: Nightclub Lot Size: 40X30 Location: Built on Rippling Flat in Newcrest

Roy G. Biv's is a club for the LGBTQIA+ community. RGB's has something for everyone, whether you want to dance the night away on the dance floor, croon your heart out on the karaoke machine, or simply relax in the hottub. Don't forget to check out live music on our spacious but intimate patio. We also have an expansive VIP area upstairs for up-and-comers.

Screenshots were taken with a lighting mod (sunblind by softerhaze).

Packs used: Get Famous, City Living, Get Together, Get to Work, Dine Out, Spa Day, Vintage Glamour, High School Years, Eco Lifestyle

1 or 2 Decorative items from: Island Living, Seasons, My Wedding Stories, Jungle Adventure, Moschino Stuff, Fitness Stuff, Bowling, Backyard, Perfect Patio, Luxury Party, Blooming Rooms, Industrial Loft, Courtyard Oasis, Holiday Celebration, and Desert Luxe

Download: Patreon | SFS

Also available on the gallery: username simstrashkingdom

Enjoy! And please feel free to tag me if you use this lot!

[ssleepyzombie]

hi yes I started this edit almost a month ago what about it ◉_◉

I think she's neat

[alainas-sims]

Viola Carroll, 1818

Viola is the main character from the book A Lady for a Duke by Alexis Hall. It's a beautiful and sweet Regency era romance with a trans heroine and I highly recommend it.

[moongoblinsims]

"my angel, flung out of space" carol / mountain / angel

for @nikatyler's 2023 Advent SIMSlendar | inspired by Carol (2015)

download therese's dress here (my cc)

[sejianismodding]

��� [BG+] AnimXGenWear: An Animation State mod for gender-nonconforming sims! 💜

☠️ REMINDER: Double-check the OP for updates!

I'm a Tenth Level Tauren Chieftain, baby! ... and if you're as old as I am and an equal-opportunity gamer like me, you'll know what that's from - it's Warcraft 3. 😸

⚔️ Requires TS4: Base Game and various other Packs!

☄️ Updated - PENDING

🚀 Initial Release - 8/17/2024

🎁 Download & Discussions Post: https://www.patreon.com/posts/108445288

🗺️ Modding Announcements Post: https://www.patreon.com/posts/10929150

🚧 This mod is a work-in-progress passion project. Included in this initial release is ONE (1) MANDATORY package and FIFTEEN (15) OPTIONAL animation set overrides for the Base Game. There are FOURTEEN (14) more animation sets for the Base Game. Additionally, there are a number of animation sets that are pack-specific. The goal is to modify every animation set that contains gendered animations and bring them to heel under AXGW. Modification and testing takes time and I always have more projects in the works, so new animation sets will be added sporadically.

💜 Works for TEENS and up. With this installed, your Clothing Preference trait will determine which gendered animations are used by your sim. A Female sim with Masculine Clothing Preference will use Masculine animations and a Male sim with Feminine Clothing Preference will use Feminine animations. This mod is also MOD-ULAR, meaning you can pick and choose which animation sets are affected. You'll find instructions for swapping your trait and Even More Information™ in the 🎁 Download & Discussions post linked above.

🎀 AXGW is 100% compatible with my little animation overrides: https://sejianismodding.tumblr.com/post/757994018182512640

🌸 Special thanks to Meep62 for "Sexy Pose determined by Clothing Preference" and plasticbox for "Sexy Pose Equality". AXGW would not exist without them but it is incompatible with both of them.

[gilbertbakerpridesimslegacy]

Gilbert Baker's Pride Legacy: an LGBT Legacy Challenge

General Concept & General Rules

This Sims 4 challenge is based on Gilbert Baker’s original 8 stripe rainbow pride flag. Baker assigned each stripe a meaning connecting to the LGBT community. Each generation embodies one of these stripes and their meanings. 

Every generation heir must complete their aspiration and reach the top level of their careers. Each heir must wear at least one item of their respective stripe colors at all times. Each heir can be any gender, including trans and nonbinary genders, unless specified otherwise.  Each heir can be any sexuality, unless specified otherwise.  The only rule: the main sim cannot be both cisgender and heterosexual/heteromantic.  You are encouraged to hang the pride flag of your sim’s identity, whatever you decide it is.

For written rules, keep reading below. For rules in graphic form, see here.

Note: Diversity is a cornerstone of our community. Please be conscious of the sims you use to play this challenge- LGBT people can be all body types, all races, and all religions. Everyone deserves spaces in the community and in your gameplay.

The rules contain uses of the packs listed below. Each instance is noted by the acronym next to the name. I have provided base game alternatives to each one of these uses, noted next to each use!

Eco Lifestyle (EL)

City Living (CL)

Get To Work (GTW)

Island Living (IL)

Parenthood (PH)

Spa Day (SD)

Get Together (GT)

For Rent (FR)

Growing Together (GWT)

Outdoor Retreat (OR)

Home Chef Hustle (HCH)

Realm of Magic (RoM)

Snowy Escape (SE)

Paranormal Stuff (PS)

Nifty Knitting (NK)

Cats and Dogs (C&D)

Cottage Living (CoL)

Horse Ranch (HR)

High School Years (HSY)

Lovestruck (LS)

Crystal Creations (CC)

Gen 1: Pink (Sex)

You were raised by extremely uptight parents and were denied every aspect of pleasure as a child.  Now, as a young adult, it’s time to explore! You’ve always enjoyed the finer things in life - that is, sex, food, and art.  You might have a little bit of a hedonistic streak, but what’s wrong with that? So did Dorian Grey! Your goals in life are to have as much sex, eat as much good food, and see as much great art as possible.  

Traits

Lovebug (LS) (alternative: romantic)

Art Lover

Foodie 

Career

Romance Consultant (LS) (alternative: Culinary, either branch)

Aspiration

Serial Romantic

Goals

Woohoo with at least 10 different sims

Have a child out of wedlock

Max the photography skill, romance skill (LS) (alternative: charisma), and the cooking or mixology skill

Have three gold star dates at an art museum

Open a food stand (HCH)

Have 3 fully-satisfied partners at once (either with Lovestruck romance satisfaction or just by having full relationship bars)

Gen 2: Red (Life)

Your parent/s brought you up in a life of luxury - you always had the best food, the best clothes, and you spent lots of time at art museums.  You want everyone else to be able to experience life’s same pleasures, so you turn to charity.  You like to make everything with your own hands and give them away - it makes you happy to see your work out in the world, making others happy and living in community.  That’s the meaning of life, isn’t it?

Note: this gen has two aspirations, which might feel overwhelming, but the Neighborhood Confidante one is only one level, and the goals overlap with this gen’s goals!

Traits

Generous (FR) (alternative: Good)

Maker (EL) (alternative: Creative)

Outgoing

Career

Politician (PS), Charity Organizer branch (Alternative: Freelancer, artist or crafter (EL)) (if freelancer, accept all gigs having to do with charitable giving)

Aspiration

Neighborhood Confidante 

Master Maker (EL) (alternative: Nerd Brain)

Goals

Master the fabrication (EL), handiness, and comedy skills (alternative: painting)

Live with at least one non-romantic roommate your whole life, including after marriage

Max friendship with at least 10 sims

Give to charity at least once a week after you move out of your parents’ home

Gen 3: Orange (Healing)

Your parent/s loved to give away everything they had.  While that’s an admirable choice, you’re a little different.  You’re all about objects - you like to have as much as possible, in order to provide a good life for your future children.  You fall in love young and immediately start a family, hoping to spend the rest of your life with them.  Unfortunately, you get too wrapped up in your work and your spouse divorces you. You spend the rest of your life trying to help your children and heal yourself. You’re also a very caring person and want to help everyone you can, and you choose a career which allows you to do so.  All you want is to see your kids succeed in life.

Traits

Materialistic

Ambitious

Family Oriented

Career 

Doctor (GTW) (alternative: education, either branch, or athlete (bodybuilder)) 

Aspiration

Successful Lineage

Goals

Master the logic, parenting (GT), and wellness (SD) skills (alternatives: charisma, fitness)

Marry your high school sweetheart immediately after aging to young adult

Have at least 2 kids with your high school sweetheart

Get divorced as a young adult or adult

Have all of your children have the top-notch infant and top-notch toddler traits, and graduate with A’s in school

Gen 4: Yellow (Sunlight)

Your parent/s were always really set on you being successful, which was annoying. Not that you don’t want to be successful, it’s just that your definition of success is pretty different than theirs. You’ve always felt a little different, a little alien in your own body. When you’re a teenager you realize you’re trans, and begin taking steps to feel more at home with yourself.  As an adult, you’re happier than you’ve ever been, and you’ve even found the love of your life and discovered your love of music - the only thing is, you’ve been so focused on your transition you forgot about… the career, making-money part of life.  You don’t really care.  You find a small house and live there with your partner and children, never working, just enjoying your happiness and creativity.

Sim Characteristics: must be transgender (binary or nonbinary). Can be any sexuality, including straight

Traits

Freegan (EL) (alternative: lazy)

Cheerful

Music Lover

Career

None, but odd jobs are allowed

Aspiration

Soulmate

Goals

Max the piano, guitar, and singing (CL) skills (alternative: violin skill)

Live in an apartment with at least one bedroom less than you have children (i.e. 2 bedroom w/ 3 kids)

Only ever date one sim, marry them and max both friendship and romance

Customize your gender settings as a teenager, can be any combination as long as not the same as at birth

Never have a job, even part-time

Live on an off-the-grid lot for at least one age category

Gen 5: Green (Nature)

Your parents were the perfect couple, and they never stopped talking about it. They were each other’s first and only loves, and they want the same kind of never-ending love for their children.  The thing is, you’re not sure you’re into that sort of thing. The most important thing, to you, is Mother Earth. You’re dedicated to preserving nature just as it is - and you find a group of friends who have just the same goal.  You live with them your whole life, and eventually you decide to adopt a child together.  You’re excited to pass on your love for the environment to a new generation.

Traits

Green Fiend (EL) (alternative: Loves Outdoors)

Loyal

Insider (GtW) (alternative: outgoing)

Career

Conservationist (IL), Environmental Manager branch (alternative: register as independent gardener, or Civil Designer (EL))

Aspiration

Freelance Botanist

Goals

Never have a romantic partner, never woohoo, customize your sexual orientation settings to reflect your lack of interest in romance and woohoo

Live in a quasi-commune/community or rental lot (FR) commune with at least 4 other people

Live on a lot with the Reduce and Recycle trait, and transform your neighborhood eco footprint from neutral/industrial to green (EL)

Max the gardening, herbalism (OR), and fishing skills (alternative: gemology (CC) or charisma)

Adopt a dog or a cat (C&D), a horse (HR), a cow, a llama, and at least one wild rabbit (CoL) (alternative: get some frogs & fish)

Make your heir have the bad manners character trait (PH) (alternative: unhappy infant trait)

Gen 6: Turquoise (Magic)

Your group of caregivers taught you to value and care for nature. So you took it to the next level and connected with nature so much that you became a spellcaster. You use your magic to help others, mostly - and summon a few animal friends. Your unusual communal upbringing gave you a few interesting traits- you’re fine eating out of the garbage, and you’re always up for an adventure, no matter how reckless. But you’re fun-loving and magical, and what more could anyone ask for?

Traits

Adventurous (SE) (alternative: goofball)

Loves Outdoors

Glutton

Career

Secret Agent

Aspiration

Spellcraft & Sorcery (RoM) (alternative: Chief of Mischief)

Goals

Max the mischief and rock climbing (SE) skills (alternative: fitness)

Achieve rank 6 spellcaster (RoM), have either a Leafbat or Glowfrog familiar (RoM) (alternative: finish the MySims trophy collection)

Have only one child, make the child have the low self-esteem trait (GWT) (alternative: unhappy infant trait)

Have a partner in crime as a child or teen, pull three successful pranks at school

Gen 7: Blue (Harmony)

Your parent was fun-loving and literally magical- they could summon animals at will and clean the floors with a flick of the wrist. Unfortunately, that kind of lifestyle didn’t bode well for a stable upbringing. You’re going to do everything you can to be the parent you never had- you’re determined to have a large, loving family, living in harmony with the world and each other. You want the most typical, average, perfect suburban life possible. But you have some… erratic traits you inherited from your parent. Plus, society’s idea of a “perfect normal family” doesn’t include a nonbinary, bisexual parent. These things seem like obstacles to your dreams- but eventually you realize it’s not you that’s wrong, it’s just that society’s picture of perfect harmony needs to change to include you.

Sim Characteristics: this sim must like multiple genders and be nonbinary/genderqueer

Traits

Erratic

Perfectionist

Romantically Reserved (LS) (alternative: Family Oriented)

Career

Salaryperson (SE), either branch (alternative: business, either branch)

Aspiration

Big Happy Family

Goals

Have 4 kids

Take your family on vacation at least once in adult life (to any vacation world, or alternatively, to a park every day for a week)

Max the parenting (PH), baking (GtW), and knitting (NK) skills (alternatives: charisma, handiness, cooking)

Have a max relationship with a high school sweetheart, but break up and marry someone else

Live in a typical blue suburban house in Brindleton Bay (C&D), Copperdale (HSY), Willow Creek, or Newcrest

Have two cats or two dogs (C&D) (alternative: have another child)

Gen 8: Violet (Spirit)

You had the perfect suburban life. Your childhood home was filled with laughter and love and many, many siblings. Your parent had a steady job and was the kindest, most loving parent in the world. But you still feel like there’s something missing. As a child you hate being around people and instead find solace in fictional worlds. Finally, you realize you’re missing some excitement, a spark, and a deep community. You decide to reconnect with your ancestors - both your actual family ancestors, and your queer ancestors of the past. They guide you throughout your life and lead you to your happiness, helping you gain confidence, love, and spirit - and help you realize you’re not alone in this world.

Sim Characteristics: if you’re a part of the LGBT community, I encourage you to make this sim reflect your own identity, if possible! If you’re not, I encourage you to make this sim an identity you haven’t encountered thus far in this challenge- go through the flags and see which ones you haven’t used!

Traits

Loner

Self-assured

Bookworm

Career

Freelance Paranormal Investigator (PS) (alternative: freelance writer)

Aspiration

Extreme Sports Enthusiast (SE) (alternative: bodybuilder)

Goals

Max the medium (PS), writing, and skiing (SE) skills (alternatives: comedy, fitness)

Live on a haunted house (PS) lot for at least one stage of life (alternative: live on a lot with the spooky trait, meet 10 non-family ghosts)

Befriend every past heir in their ghost forms

Befriend 3 non-family ghosts

Don’t gain the self-assured trait until aging to young adulthood

[allrosenrot]

Johann Hughes

Getting ready for the show tonight!

[elitasims]

The one thing about Zelda is, her face card never declines. Literally the it girl of my game currently 🫶🏻🫶🏻

[lesbiansimqueen]

getting ready for the day

[lamontarte]

Cameron 💕⃝🕊️